One of my best supporters since I found out I was pregnant with Nate has been my Aunt Brenda. Over the past four years, she has been there for me when I thought I was losing it and needed some time away, when I had military obligations, when I had work obligations, when I went on vacation, and even more. She has selflessly offered to watch my children (with her now ex- helping a considerable amount) and has showered them with love and attention. In fact, she and my mother-in-law will be watching my children while Aaron and I are on our honeymoon on St. Lucia.

Not only has she been there to watch my children, but she's been there as a support for me. She has sent me numerous e-mails telling me that I am doing my best, I'm a good mother, and I need to stop worrying. She has talked to me on the phone, hugged me, offered me money and food. (Which I've partaken from on several occassions.) She's allowed me to stay in her (and her ex's) home while I'm in town (as she lives two hours away from me) multiple times.

I've appreciated it every step of the way. She's been there without question, unhesitatingly.

She's also been going through her own trials. She finished college (she went to school in her mid 30s, I believe), got a new job, underwent surgery, lost more than one hundred pounds (I'm thinking more than two hundred, but what do I know?), underwent some financial changes, and many other events. Yet she has still been there for me.

I just want to give her a heartfelt, "Thank you." I never forgot or took you for granted. I'm so grateful for your help and assistance, and I hope that I can be there for you in any way, as you were there for me.

Thank you Julie at Another Chance Ranch.

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